Saturday, May 29, 2010

What is Love?

This whole blog is based on the topic of love. The good, the bad and the ugly, but what is the meaning of love? A feeling of intense emotion and connection with someone? A desire to spend all your time with this one person and never wanting them to leave your life. But why? What causes this reaction, this feeling? Do we thrive off the attention, the sweet words, and the flirtation? At what point do you decide that this is "the one"? The one person in the whole entire universe that truly understands you and that you want to be with all day, every day, for the rest of your life. In fifteen years are you going to be glad you made this decision or will you be wondering what if there was someone better right around the corner?
It seems like the three little words, "I Love You," are carelessly thrown out as a last resort to win the affection of our desire. That everything that happened prior to declaring your love didn't matter. That the fix for a fight is to abruptly declare your unconditional love. Like pulling the Joker card. After hearing it enough it starts to feel so fake and meaningless. If you want to stick by my side, you will regardless of what endearing words are said or not said.

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